Hi, I’m Ilse.
I help people create healthier, stronger relationships with their partners, adult children and families.
Meet Ilse
I specialize in helping families unlock better communication and deepen their connections. It’s a skill I’ve honed over time, and I take pride in delivering meaningful results for the individuals and families I work with.
My work is grounded in years of hands-on experience supporting individuals and families through challenging relationship dynamics. While I continue to work in a professional support role during the day, I chose to create this private Relationship Specialist practice outside of insurance limitations—so I can meet people where they are and focus fully on connection, communication, and healing.
When I’m not working with clients, you’ll usually find me rolling out of bed—likely half asleep—on my way to see my trainer or playing pickleball. During football season, I’m most likely at home relaxing with my hubby, cheering on our teams. With four daughters who all have busy schedules of their own, we truly treasure every moment of family time we get to share together.
So, what can you expect if you decide to reach out and work with me? The first step is to schedule a free 15-minute consultation call to see if we’re a good fit.
About Me
My purpose in life is to help people and families find healing. It’s a passion I’ve carried with me for as long as I can remember.
I earned a B.A. in Communications from California State University, Dominguez Hills, but it’s my heart, compassion, and genuine care for others that truly guide the work I do and the results I help my clients achieve.
I started this practice because I’ve seen how many parents, adult children, and families quietly struggle with strained or even broken relationships—often believing there’s no way forward, when in reality, healing and change are possible.
(Services offered through this website are not therapy, counseling, or clinical treatment and are provided independently from my employment.)
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Family conflict creating ongoing tension?
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Infidelity making it hard to move forward?
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Parent–adult child conflict creating distance?
“Get to know you” - One-on-one session
$45 /hour
Are your past experiences shaping your present choices?
Negative self-talk holding you back?
Struggling to set healthy boundaries?
Services
“Relationship Rehab” - Couples session
$60/hour
Each individual is encouraged to complete a private one-on-one session prior to beginning couples sessions. The first couples session is then recommended within two weeks of completing the individual sessions.
“Family First Aid”
$100/ 1.5-2 hour session
Sessions may include up to four family members. Participants must be 18 years or older.
“Parental Reset”
$45 /hour
Do you feel guilty when setting boundaries with your adult child?
Is your help actually hurting your adult child?
Learn how to support your adult child in growing their independence—without abandoning connection.
“Dating Dilemmas”
$45 /hour
Do you wonder why you’re still single?
Are you scared of getting hurt again?
Do you want to put yourself out there but don’t know how to start?
What Clients are Saying
"Ilse made me feel so comfortable and finally able to open up and be honest about what was going on. She doesn’t just listen. I learned practical ways to really work on what was causing me to feel so alone.
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"She helped our family in ways I didn’t think were possible. She literally held our hands because just talking was so damn hard! Somehow, after each session we walked away better and stronger. Honestly, it was a pretty amazing what she did for us. We thank God we found her. No more walking on egg shells.”
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Questions?
Lets talk and explore your next step.
Disclaimer
Services are educational and consultative, not counseling, psychotherapy, or substance use treatment. No therapist-client relationship is created. For crisis or mental health support, contact a licensed professional or emergency services.